In a world flooded with dashboards, deadlines, and decision fatigue, leadership often feels like treading water. But what if the very things you avoid—discomfort and perceived failure—are actually your most accurate signals for breakthrough?
In this transformative episode of The Self-Aware Leader, host Jason Rigby sits down with Arielle Lechner—an executive coach to leaders at Google, GitHub, and Peloton—to unpack a radical idea: discomfort isn’t your enemy, it’s your most precise compass for growth.
This isn't another generic leadership talk. We dive deep into why an overreliance on data can actually obscure real leadership gaps, and how leaning into resistance accelerates true growth.
🔑 In this episode, you will discover:
The Myth of the Flawless Founder: Why chasing perfection leads to burnout and how to break free.
Discomfort as a Competitive Advantage: How to repurpose internal friction as a powerful signal for strategic decision-making.
"Think Like a Scientist" Mindset: Transforming failure into forward motion by embracing experimentation over perfection.
Velocity of Learning: Why small, fast experiments are more valuable than over-analysis, and how this defines your leadership edge.
Intuition in a Data-Driven World: Learn why your gut instincts don't conflict with metrics, but powerfully complement them.
The Lift and Thrust Model: A practical diagnostic tool to assess team culture and energize your dynamics.
High-Leverage Communication: Mastering the "clear, explicit, direct" strategies that differentiate truly effective leaders and prevent burnout.
Navigating Impostor Syndrome: Understanding identity gaps in leadership and how to lead with genuine authenticity.
Arielle shares practical tools and self-inquiry questions that shift your inner narrative and elevate your team's performance. This episode is a masterclass in humble leadership and self-aware transformation. If you’ve ever felt stuck, overloaded, or battled impostor syndrome, this conversation will completely reframe your leadership journey and guide you towards unshakeable clarity.
⏱️ Episode Timestamps:
[00:34] – Intro to Arielle Lechner: Disrupting the status quo
[02:14] – What founders really mean by frustration
[03:40] – You can’t think your way to clarity
[05:29] – Using discomfort as your competitive signal
[07:14] – What does “velocity of learning” mean?
[09:15] – Why your intuition is your most undervalued asset
[13:08] – Think like a scientist: Embracing failure as feedback
[20:17] – Lift and Thrust Model: A culture-check diagnostic
[26:07] – High-leverage communication: Clear. Explicit. Direct.
[31:58] – Impostor syndrome and identity gaps in leadership
💬 Quotes to Inspire:
“You can’t think your way to clarity—you experiment your way there.” – Arielle Lechner
“Discomfort isn’t a barrier—it’s a signal.” – Arielle Lechner
“Leadership is a learning loop; velocity matters more than perfection.” – Arielle Lechner
🔗 Resources for Your Leadership Journey:
Guest Links:
Arielle Lechner’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ariellethecoach/
Arielle Lechner’s Coaching Platform (Newpo.io):
Podcast Links:
Self Aware Leader Podcast Website: www.selfawarepodcast.com
🚀 Ready to Transform Your Leadership?
Feeling overwhelmed or unsure where to focus? Embrace discomfort as your compass. Subscribe to The Self Aware Leader and start experimenting your way to clarity today. Join a community of grounded, growth-driven leaders at www.selfawarepodcast.com—because your evolution starts with a single question.
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